Be your own lover.
because it's like the question of "how to swallow saliva". Some people know how to swallow saliva, but others just haven't learned it, and they don't even have the concept of "swallowing saliva".
most people think they can swallow saliva (many of them just swallow, and he doesn't know how to swallow, but he thinks he does), so they will gather to bully and not swallow.
"are you pretentious, do you want to learn this?"
and this kind of bullying often occurs at a very old age.
if a child runs or admits a mistake so that the child will no longer be attacked, then the child will tell the child, "I have finally done the right thing, and I will not be beaten if I run or admit my mistake."
but he /she has got it right.
then slowly changed from "practicing method" to "habit", and then slowly, to "fence", to "system".
so I gave this "practice", this "habit", this "fence", and this "system" with some positive feedback of "sure enough". As a result, the "system" is stronger, and as understood by the parties, it is much stronger and sharper.
so is it a good question for you to say, "how to love someone?"
I have my opinion on the love affair.
to tell you the truth, I didn't feel the need for love in the past.
"go when you love". Every time you hit the road, you have to be scared. You have to look back and see if my parents will follow me. Later, when my family has a computer, they have to call the telecommunications bureau to fix the network every time. Every time I don't like it, I have to scold my sister for being private.
also, I didn't really study hard in the middle school, so I didn't get a higher score than expected.
I forced him to take part in debate competitions, speech contests, even stage drama competitions. I made a lot of books that I hated, delivering newspapers, McDonald's, handing out flyers, and then in the process, I didn't play so many games for him and asked him to write.
write a thousand words every day, even if you don't have a hot bath after you finish it. Write, write every day, even if the neck pain and shoulder pain, but also to finish the thousand words.
later, when I registered the company, I told my partner that I didn't want to be CEO, I just wanted to be editor-in-chief. But when it was about to collapse a few years later, I said to him, "I'll do it, you don't do it". Later, I made an agreement with another partner that I would become a shareholder in the company, essentially because of the phrase "I don't want to manage managers".
now the result is that I am often praised as "you are good at managing" and "you are already a good manager".
I said to my friend, "you know, I'm really hard on kids."
I'm surprised. I feel so uncomfortable. How can it be normal?
the other day we ate stewed pot fish and ate half of it. I said I wanted to eat rice. I asked, "can I untie my trousers?"
Wei Wei scolded me, saying, "when you get back, you throw these trousers to him immediately."
when readers saw me a few years ago, they would say that I was fat again.
so bloating, after I threw away all the inappropriate trousers, it never appeared again.
after New Year's Day, I went to Shanghai for two weeks.
my friend told me, "if you don't like watching TV, why does that restaurant have TV?" Then, because of the TV, there is a sofa in front of the TV, so there is tea in front of the sofa, so there is a single chair on the left side of the tea bowl. "
after listening to my friend, I realized how many "unwatched TVs" I had put in my life.
I told my friends that I basically wrote a "chapter" for two days, and I felt like I was in school.
then I started flipping through books, reading Jung's biography, "you should talk to someone", "intimacy", and "Anti-fragility".
so when I came to the last five days of the Lunar New year, I felt sad again and again. I said to my friend on the phone, "I just want to fly to Shanghai."
so I showed up in Shanghai on the afternoon of the sixth day of the Lunar New year and spent only 500 yuan.
my mother's first sentence is: "excuse me, I think you have changed."
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but I wasn't angry. I just smiled and asked my mother, "Why have I changed?"
this time, contrary to the attack, I felt the connection and expectation behind my mother's words.
so I slowly told her, "click" to tell her, my father later listened and expressed some of his views.
finally, I said to my parents, "I've decided not to go. If you want me to stay at home, I'll stay at home." But I hope that if you really support me, you will support me to do what I want to do. But if you don't hold on to it, I will accept it. "
I said yes.
then on the way back to my room, I turned my head, smiled and said to my mother, who was still wiping away her tears, "so I may be dead tomorrow, but I will come back to spend time with you."
so I went to Shanghai and wrote on the plane:
I think, "Love someone" may mean choosing someone every time you make a choice.
good night.
finally, I said to my parents, "I've decided not to go. If you want me to stay at home, I'll stay at home." But I hope that if you really support me, you will support me to do what I want to do. But if you don't hold on to it, I will accept it. "
I said yes.
then on the way back to my room, I turned my head, smiled and said to my mother, who was still wiping away her tears, "so I may be dead tomorrow, but I will come back to spend time with you."
so I went to Shanghai and wrote on the plane:
I think, "Love someone" may mean choosing someone every time you make a choice.
good night.